While there are many possible signs of a cheating spouse, a private investigator in NY and NJ can help dispel or confirm your suspicions quietly, without arousing suspicion.
For those suspicious of a cheating husband, a private detective can determine if your spouse really is just out with his friends or already involved in an illicit affair. Meanwhile, husbands who are suspicious of a cheating wife can finally find out whether their wives are really faithful or already cheating on them with other people.
With over 25 years of experience in the field, A.J. Sterling has helped clients find out the truth when they’re faced with signs of a cheating spouse. A private investigator from the firm is skilled in all traditional and modern surveillance techniques, and offers professional, discreet services when tracking either a cheating husband or wife.
Aside from helping clients allay their suspicions of a cheating spouse, a private investigator in NJ and NY offers other services. This includes conducting background checks, searching for missing persons, and finding evidence for child custody cases.
Top 20 Signs of Cheating Spouse
- There is an unusual amount of “wrong number” calls coming to the house.
- Your spouse is absent more frequently, and cannot account for it.
- Your spouse uses the internet at odd hours of the night, likely because they’re browsing internet dating sites. (i.e. AshelyMadison.com)
- Your spouse is constantly making excuses for activities outside the home.
- There is an unusual amount of unexplained credit card activity.
- Your spouse has lost significant interest in your sex life.
- Your spouse focuses an unusual amount of attention on his or her physical appearance (working out, grooming, wardrobe, etc…)
- There is an unusual amount of “hang up” calls coming to the house.
- Your spouse comes home late from work more often than usual. Also there are more “colleague farewell” parties, overnight business trips, etc…
- Your spouse creates a new e-mail address and/or changes the password to their current e-mail.
- Your spouse is overly cautious with their cell phone, taking it with them EVERYWHERE they go. Also he or she may often have their phone turned off or switched to silent.
- You have consistently caught your spouse telling little “white” lies.
- Your spouse suddenly takes up a REGULAR hobby in which you’re not included.
- Your spouse no longer shows signs of affection (kissing, cuddling, holding hands, etc…)
- Your spouse keeps you from seeing the phone bill.
- Your spouse deletes the browsing history.
- There are unusual and unexplained withdrawals from your bank account.
- Your spouse asks you about your schedule more often than usual.
- Your spouse often takes “business” calls in a separate room.
- You catch your spouse being guilty of the traditional tell-tale signs: lipstick on the collar, smell of another person’s scent, etc…




